Bitterness and Forgiveness

Oct 26, 2025    Jamin Grubbs

This powerful message confronts one of the most debilitating sins we face as believers: bitterness. Drawing from Ephesians 4:31 and Hebrews 12:14-15, we're reminded that bitterness is like a root of poison that springs up when we nurse anger toward others. The imagery is striking—bitterness impacts not only those around us but destroys us from within, like holding onto two shovels: one to bury the object of our bitterness and one to bury ourselves. The path to freedom begins with understanding the God of forgiveness, who removes our transgressions as far as the east is from the west. We're challenged to remember the price Jesus paid on the cross for our forgiveness, and how that supernatural love becomes the binding agent that enables us to forgive others. The message doesn't minimize authentic hurt or pain, but it offers hope: when we confess our bitterness and choose forgiveness, we break free from bondage. As James 1:19-20 reminds us, our anger does not produce God's righteousness. The call is clear—we must intentionally cut down the root of bitterness before it produces bitter fruit in our lives, relationships, and churches.